Thursday, November 11, 2010

A Girl Dressed Up =)










My Top is from Rainbow
Jeans from Pretty girl
Necklace from Rainbow, Ring Rainbow
Shoes from Payless

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Thursday, October 28, 2010

My Opinion On this Article... IS......

Should "Fatties" Get a Room? (Even on TV?)
October 25, 2010 9:00 AM by Maura Kelly

The other day, my editor asked me, "Do you really think people feel uncomfortable when they see overweight people making out on television?"
Because I can be kind of clueless — I'm not much of a TV person — I had no idea what she was talking about, so she steered me to this CNN article, about the CBS sitcom Mike & Molly. As CNN explains, "the show centers around a couple who meet at an Overeaters Anonymous group [and] has drawn complaints for its abundance of fat jokes [as well as] cries from some viewers who aren't comfortable watching intimacy between two plus-sized actors."
My initial response was: Hmm, being overweight is one thing — those people are downright obese! And while I think our country's obsession with physical perfection is unhealthy, I also think it's at least equally crazy, albeit in the other direction, to be implicitly promoting obesity! Yes, anorexia is sick, but at least some slim models are simply naturally skinny. No one who is as fat as Mike and Molly can be healthy. And obesity is costing our country far more in terms of all the related health problems we are paying for, by way of our insurance, than any other health problem, even cancer.
So anyway, yes, I think I'd be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other ... because I'd be grossed out if I had to watch them doing anything. To be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room — just like I'd find it distressing if I saw a very drunk person stumbling across a bar or a heroine addict slumping in a chair.
Now, don't go getting the wrong impression: I have a few friends who could be called plump. I'm not some size-ist jerk. And I also know how tough it can be for truly heavy people to psych themselves up for the long process of slimming down. (For instance, the overweight maintenance guy at my gym has talked to me a little bit about how it seems worthless for him to even try working out, because he's been heavy for as long as he can remember.)
But ... I think obesity is something that most people have a ton of control over. It's something they can change, if only they put their minds to it.
(I'm happy to give you some nutrition and fitness suggestions if you need them — but long story short, eat more fresh and unprocessed foods, read labels and avoid foods with any kind of processed sweetener in them whether it's cane sugar or high fructose corn syrup, increase the amount of fiber you're getting, get some kind of exercise for 30 minutes at least five times a week, and do everything you can to stand up more — even while using your computer — and walk more. I admit that there's plenty that makes slimming down tough, but YOU CAN DO IT! Trust me. It will take some time, but you'll also feel so good, physically and emotionally. A nutritionist or personal trainer will help — and if you can't afford one, visit your local YMCA for some advice.)
Then again, I guess these characters are in Overeaters Anonymous. So ... points for trying?
Then again, I tend to think most television shows are a kind of junk food for the mind and body. The boob tube gives us an excuse to turn off both our brains and our bodies and probably does a helluva lot to contribute to the obesity problem, over all. So ... I don't know.
What do you guys think? Fat people making out on TV — are you cool with it? Do you think I'm being an insensitive jerk?
UPDATE: I would really like to apologize for the insensitive things I've said in this post. Believe it or not, I never wanted anyone to feel bullied or ashamed after reading this, and I sorely regret that it upset people so much. A lot of what I said was unnecessary. It wasn't productive, either.



I know a lot of people truly struggle to lose weight — for medical and psychological reasons — and that many people have an incredibly difficult time getting to a healthy size. I feel for those people and I'm truly sorry I added to the unhappiness and pain they feel with my post.



I would like to reiterate that I think it's great to have people of all shapes and healthy sizes represented in magazines (as, it bears mentioning here, they are in Marie Claire) and on TV shows — and that in my post, I was talking about a TV show that features people who are not simply a little overweight, but appear to be morbidly obese. (Morbid obesity is defined as 100 percent more than their ideal weight.) And for whatever it's worth, I feel just as uncomfortable when I see an anorexic person as I do when I see someone who is morbidly obese, because I assume people suffering from eating disorders on either end of the spectrum are doing damage to their bodies, and that they are unhappy. But perhaps I shouldn’t be so quick to judge based on superficial observations.

To that point (and on a more personal level), a few commenters and one of my friends mentioned that my extreme reaction might have grown out of my own body issues, my history as an anorexic, and my life-long obsession with being thin. As I mentioned in the ongoing dialogue we’ve been carrying on in the comments section, I think that's an accurate insight.

People have accused me of being a bully in my post. I never intended to be that — it's actually the very last thing I want to be, as a writer or a person. But I know that I came off that way, and I really cannot apologize enough to the people whom I upset.




Im sorry but this person makes me sick 2 my stomach. Yes i know im kinda promoting her blog. But i needed to prove a point to everyone out there. IM a size 17/18. I am very proud of my body. Yes i use to be much heavier. I wasnt all that happy at that weight,but im a size 18 and I am soooooooo much more happier with the way i look. She needs to respect ALL ppl out there. Not everyone will b a size 0,like come on. I look at big girls and BEAUTIFUL. Not all of them are beautiful inside n out,but they r beautiful in every way shape n form. Big guys are cute,sexy also. Heck my bf isnt a skinny guy nor is he "Fat".but i care for him just the way he is. And in todays society this SHIT needs to stop. Ppl like Ms. Kelly needs to respect all people wether the are a size 0 or a size 26. Young girls need postive role models. And i hope one day I will b that role model. Im happy in my body,im happy where im at in life. If me kissing my big bf grosses u out Look the other way. If 2 big people gross u out when they walk on by,Stop looking then. They are beautiful no matter what you say or think of them. Honey you are promoting Bully,you send the wrong message to people everywhere. U are given people the right to go up to fat people and start bashing on them,emotionally and physically. You must hate yourself to be doing such a thing. I never wish anyone to b fired from their job,but i hope Marie Claire does fire you,for being soooooo insensitive to what you wrote. Ya we are all entitled to our opinions,but this was out of line. Plain and simple WRONG

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Fall Look







Wearing 2 shirts from Old Navy and my Jeans are from Rainbow <3
My face i have Wet n Wild Foundation in Nude with Revlon in # 10 Natural Tan
I prepped my eyes with Mac Paint in Untilted then with Wet n Wild Idol eyes color:134 Distress
MAc Prussian on my lids on my lid I have Tilt and Moons Reflections in the inner corner i have Parfait Amour,as my highlight a Wet n Wild Nude color
Eyeliner in Black one by Wet n Wild n on the water line from wet n wild Mega Liquid liner # 861 in black

On my cheeks Clinique Bronzer and on the Apples of my cheeks MAC Dame and a highligher by NYX
On my Lips by NYX in Rose

Mascarra Nicka K in Extreme Volume in Black

Sunday, September 19, 2010








All products are NYX
Shirt is from Rainbow,earings from Forever XII and necklace unknown(gift)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

look go with this hair style
One major fashion trend that is still around n is on the runways at fashion wk is Sleek n straight hair. Its timeless n ageless. Everyone and anyone can

I Know I Know

I havent been around in a long while. Ive been super busy with alot of personal things,some very good n some not so good,but i hope to keep blogging n posting many new things, Plz follow n watch 4 more to come from me =D

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Me being Me

See im a fun crazy girl. I like being unique,different. It just how I feel like i was ment to be. I dont see myself like every other girl.  I love playing with my makeup and using all the beautiful colors i have.  To come up with different looks and just having fun with them.

I dont go by fashion. I dont have a personal look or style. Im noticing im becoming alittle girly girl. I have a different looks i dont have just one look. I have multiple looks,never the same. I guess i kinda like it like that. I dont follow trends,nor do i make them, I just go and wear what looks good on me and makes me feel good. I dont match my makeup to what I am wearing. I dont like being matchy match. its to boring n plain.

As for a love life. Im starting on a new venture with someone new. Its going slow and i like that feeling. He is a sweet and nice. He has a good head on his shoulder.  A good job and a great future ahead of him. I am very glad I have meet him ;) he makes me happy and feel special.  Not everything is gonna be easy,but he makes things seem easy and simple.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

HI YA

Im a night owl. And i got bored SO here is something i did 2nite







Friday, April 16, 2010

Working the Zac Posen launch party. This is fun

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

I am offically registered 4 my Fall '10 classes gonna b a long winter 4 me. Wish me Luck






Here is just a few Pics of my New LOOK Blue =)
Eyes:MAC(ALL The colors)Contrast,Shimmermoss and Naked Pigment and Painterly Paint Pot, Maybelline Liquid Eyeliner, Maybelline Stiletto Massacra NYC Black eyeliner
Lips: LA Colors Naked
Face: Maybelline Liquid Foundation, Clinique Blush(4got the names) n NYC Translucent Powder

WELCOME

HI Everyone. Im new to this and looking fwd to showing my looks and feelings on Make up and even alittle fashion. Im also a single chick so i might even blog bout how im feeling bout the dating world. Just in case anyone would care bout that. I Hope Everyone will enjoy what i have 2 share and hopefully i can get a REAL Video Up on here 2 =D

Thursday, November 11, 2010

A Girl Dressed Up =)










My Top is from Rainbow
Jeans from Pretty girl
Necklace from Rainbow, Ring Rainbow
Shoes from Payless

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Thursday, October 28, 2010

My Opinion On this Article... IS......

Should "Fatties" Get a Room? (Even on TV?)
October 25, 2010 9:00 AM by Maura Kelly

The other day, my editor asked me, "Do you really think people feel uncomfortable when they see overweight people making out on television?"
Because I can be kind of clueless — I'm not much of a TV person — I had no idea what she was talking about, so she steered me to this CNN article, about the CBS sitcom Mike & Molly. As CNN explains, "the show centers around a couple who meet at an Overeaters Anonymous group [and] has drawn complaints for its abundance of fat jokes [as well as] cries from some viewers who aren't comfortable watching intimacy between two plus-sized actors."
My initial response was: Hmm, being overweight is one thing — those people are downright obese! And while I think our country's obsession with physical perfection is unhealthy, I also think it's at least equally crazy, albeit in the other direction, to be implicitly promoting obesity! Yes, anorexia is sick, but at least some slim models are simply naturally skinny. No one who is as fat as Mike and Molly can be healthy. And obesity is costing our country far more in terms of all the related health problems we are paying for, by way of our insurance, than any other health problem, even cancer.
So anyway, yes, I think I'd be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other ... because I'd be grossed out if I had to watch them doing anything. To be brutally honest, even in real life, I find it aesthetically displeasing to watch a very, very fat person simply walk across a room — just like I'd find it distressing if I saw a very drunk person stumbling across a bar or a heroine addict slumping in a chair.
Now, don't go getting the wrong impression: I have a few friends who could be called plump. I'm not some size-ist jerk. And I also know how tough it can be for truly heavy people to psych themselves up for the long process of slimming down. (For instance, the overweight maintenance guy at my gym has talked to me a little bit about how it seems worthless for him to even try working out, because he's been heavy for as long as he can remember.)
But ... I think obesity is something that most people have a ton of control over. It's something they can change, if only they put their minds to it.
(I'm happy to give you some nutrition and fitness suggestions if you need them — but long story short, eat more fresh and unprocessed foods, read labels and avoid foods with any kind of processed sweetener in them whether it's cane sugar or high fructose corn syrup, increase the amount of fiber you're getting, get some kind of exercise for 30 minutes at least five times a week, and do everything you can to stand up more — even while using your computer — and walk more. I admit that there's plenty that makes slimming down tough, but YOU CAN DO IT! Trust me. It will take some time, but you'll also feel so good, physically and emotionally. A nutritionist or personal trainer will help — and if you can't afford one, visit your local YMCA for some advice.)
Then again, I guess these characters are in Overeaters Anonymous. So ... points for trying?
Then again, I tend to think most television shows are a kind of junk food for the mind and body. The boob tube gives us an excuse to turn off both our brains and our bodies and probably does a helluva lot to contribute to the obesity problem, over all. So ... I don't know.
What do you guys think? Fat people making out on TV — are you cool with it? Do you think I'm being an insensitive jerk?
UPDATE: I would really like to apologize for the insensitive things I've said in this post. Believe it or not, I never wanted anyone to feel bullied or ashamed after reading this, and I sorely regret that it upset people so much. A lot of what I said was unnecessary. It wasn't productive, either.



I know a lot of people truly struggle to lose weight — for medical and psychological reasons — and that many people have an incredibly difficult time getting to a healthy size. I feel for those people and I'm truly sorry I added to the unhappiness and pain they feel with my post.



I would like to reiterate that I think it's great to have people of all shapes and healthy sizes represented in magazines (as, it bears mentioning here, they are in Marie Claire) and on TV shows — and that in my post, I was talking about a TV show that features people who are not simply a little overweight, but appear to be morbidly obese. (Morbid obesity is defined as 100 percent more than their ideal weight.) And for whatever it's worth, I feel just as uncomfortable when I see an anorexic person as I do when I see someone who is morbidly obese, because I assume people suffering from eating disorders on either end of the spectrum are doing damage to their bodies, and that they are unhappy. But perhaps I shouldn’t be so quick to judge based on superficial observations.

To that point (and on a more personal level), a few commenters and one of my friends mentioned that my extreme reaction might have grown out of my own body issues, my history as an anorexic, and my life-long obsession with being thin. As I mentioned in the ongoing dialogue we’ve been carrying on in the comments section, I think that's an accurate insight.

People have accused me of being a bully in my post. I never intended to be that — it's actually the very last thing I want to be, as a writer or a person. But I know that I came off that way, and I really cannot apologize enough to the people whom I upset.




Im sorry but this person makes me sick 2 my stomach. Yes i know im kinda promoting her blog. But i needed to prove a point to everyone out there. IM a size 17/18. I am very proud of my body. Yes i use to be much heavier. I wasnt all that happy at that weight,but im a size 18 and I am soooooooo much more happier with the way i look. She needs to respect ALL ppl out there. Not everyone will b a size 0,like come on. I look at big girls and BEAUTIFUL. Not all of them are beautiful inside n out,but they r beautiful in every way shape n form. Big guys are cute,sexy also. Heck my bf isnt a skinny guy nor is he "Fat".but i care for him just the way he is. And in todays society this SHIT needs to stop. Ppl like Ms. Kelly needs to respect all people wether the are a size 0 or a size 26. Young girls need postive role models. And i hope one day I will b that role model. Im happy in my body,im happy where im at in life. If me kissing my big bf grosses u out Look the other way. If 2 big people gross u out when they walk on by,Stop looking then. They are beautiful no matter what you say or think of them. Honey you are promoting Bully,you send the wrong message to people everywhere. U are given people the right to go up to fat people and start bashing on them,emotionally and physically. You must hate yourself to be doing such a thing. I never wish anyone to b fired from their job,but i hope Marie Claire does fire you,for being soooooo insensitive to what you wrote. Ya we are all entitled to our opinions,but this was out of line. Plain and simple WRONG

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Fall Look







Wearing 2 shirts from Old Navy and my Jeans are from Rainbow <3
My face i have Wet n Wild Foundation in Nude with Revlon in # 10 Natural Tan
I prepped my eyes with Mac Paint in Untilted then with Wet n Wild Idol eyes color:134 Distress
MAc Prussian on my lids on my lid I have Tilt and Moons Reflections in the inner corner i have Parfait Amour,as my highlight a Wet n Wild Nude color
Eyeliner in Black one by Wet n Wild n on the water line from wet n wild Mega Liquid liner # 861 in black

On my cheeks Clinique Bronzer and on the Apples of my cheeks MAC Dame and a highligher by NYX
On my Lips by NYX in Rose

Mascarra Nicka K in Extreme Volume in Black

Sunday, September 19, 2010








All products are NYX
Shirt is from Rainbow,earings from Forever XII and necklace unknown(gift)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

look go with this hair style
One major fashion trend that is still around n is on the runways at fashion wk is Sleek n straight hair. Its timeless n ageless. Everyone and anyone can

I Know I Know

I havent been around in a long while. Ive been super busy with alot of personal things,some very good n some not so good,but i hope to keep blogging n posting many new things, Plz follow n watch 4 more to come from me =D

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Me being Me

See im a fun crazy girl. I like being unique,different. It just how I feel like i was ment to be. I dont see myself like every other girl.  I love playing with my makeup and using all the beautiful colors i have.  To come up with different looks and just having fun with them.

I dont go by fashion. I dont have a personal look or style. Im noticing im becoming alittle girly girl. I have a different looks i dont have just one look. I have multiple looks,never the same. I guess i kinda like it like that. I dont follow trends,nor do i make them, I just go and wear what looks good on me and makes me feel good. I dont match my makeup to what I am wearing. I dont like being matchy match. its to boring n plain.

As for a love life. Im starting on a new venture with someone new. Its going slow and i like that feeling. He is a sweet and nice. He has a good head on his shoulder.  A good job and a great future ahead of him. I am very glad I have meet him ;) he makes me happy and feel special.  Not everything is gonna be easy,but he makes things seem easy and simple.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

HI YA

Im a night owl. And i got bored SO here is something i did 2nite







Friday, April 16, 2010

Working the Zac Posen launch party. This is fun

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

I am offically registered 4 my Fall '10 classes gonna b a long winter 4 me. Wish me Luck






Here is just a few Pics of my New LOOK Blue =)
Eyes:MAC(ALL The colors)Contrast,Shimmermoss and Naked Pigment and Painterly Paint Pot, Maybelline Liquid Eyeliner, Maybelline Stiletto Massacra NYC Black eyeliner
Lips: LA Colors Naked
Face: Maybelline Liquid Foundation, Clinique Blush(4got the names) n NYC Translucent Powder

WELCOME

HI Everyone. Im new to this and looking fwd to showing my looks and feelings on Make up and even alittle fashion. Im also a single chick so i might even blog bout how im feeling bout the dating world. Just in case anyone would care bout that. I Hope Everyone will enjoy what i have 2 share and hopefully i can get a REAL Video Up on here 2 =D